Growing Up As A Bisexual Man
From my earliest memories of school, I always knew I was a bit different from my male friends. I loved to dance, they loved sports. I liked to talk about my feelings & to express myself, while they would get […]
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How Becoming a Dancer Changed My Life by Lola Foxx
When I first started dancing I was in an abusive relationship, slowly worn down over time into someone I could barely recognize. I struggled with creating boundaries in my life and with people around me, simply because I was too […]
My Angel
Submitted by Jay I’ve been dating a dancer for almost 3 years now, and honestly, it’s pretty amazing. Lola is strong, no nonsense, and knows what she wants. She’s got big lips, a fiery tongue, and a fit physique that […]
Predators Up, Revenue Down in Vancouver’s Outdoor Sex Work Market
If you want to know what’s happening in Canada’s economy, you don’t need to read business journals or watch the latest stock reports, you just need to check in with the outdoor sex workers who serve the country’s “working-class” residents […]
Sex Work Abolitionists: “Good” People, “Bad” Data
As a sex worker community, we attract a lot of negative attention from a variety of special interest groups who fear us, hate us, and/or ignorantly want to rescue us from our career choices. These special interest groups work tirelessly […]
Sex Workers Excluded in Federal Funding for Monkeypox Response
Yet again, the federal government has excluded sex workers in their response to the Monkeypox outbreak. Just today, the Honourable Hedy Fry announced the recipients of the $550,000 in funding, and $0 of it went to sex workers. Now, I absolutely […]
AIDS, Monkeypox, Palermo, & the Erasure of Sex Workers in Canadian Health Care
During a recent conversation with veteran Vancouver sex worker activist, Susan Davis, we touched on a few hot topics in Canadian Health Care: the continual erasure of sex workers from important Canadian preventive health strategies, such as AIDS and Monkeypox. […]
3 Interesting Things You Didn’t Know About Canada’s Prostitution Laws
I had the chance to speak with Susan Davis, a longtime sex worker activist in Vancouver, about how well BC’s current prostitution laws are (or aren’t) serving sex workers in 2022. She identified 3 juicy things you didn’t know about […]
Aging as a Sex Worker – Written by Ladel Cabaret
I’ve been a lucky whore. I know it. I never thought I would see myself aging as a sex worker, but I’m enjoying it. I started the business like 15 years ago, and although I had always considered it (yes, […]
What is Whorephobia and Why You Should Care
What is Whorephobia Whorephobia is the fear or shaming of sexually liberated individuals, or more specifically, sex workers. Deeply internalized within both individuals and society as a whole, this concept also promotes denying sex workers basic social and human rights. […]
My Awkward Sexual Experience – Sex Workers Real Stories – Part 1
As sex workers, we experience a variety of sexual activities and delights in our day-to-day lives. Most of the time, our sessions are fun and enjoyable, but sometimes things get awkward. Here is the first story in our installment of […]
International Whores Day and Decriminalization of Sex Work Worldwide
International Whores Day was established on June 2nd in 1975, as a response to the imprisonment of 10 consensual adult sex workers in Lyon, France. At that time, hundreds of thousands of people joined together to occupy churches to protest […]
What is The International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers and How Can I Participate?
Violence against the sex worker community is a global issue, faced by people in almost every community worldwide. We have a responsibility to inform ourselves and advocate to make this conversation as public as possible, and to do what we […]
Why Sex Work is a Real Job
Sex work is real work. Wake up, sheeple. It’s not called the world’s oldest profession for nothing. Just like any other grunt, sex workers wake up, down some coffee, put on their assless chaps, and trudge to the sex factory. […]
How to Screen Escort Clients
Screening is an important piece of harm reduction for sex workers. A lot of it is gut instinct, and the rest is getting the right information from the potential client. Before we get into screening tips and tricks, I need […]
A Feminist Review of Starwars: The Force Awakens
The Star Wars Universe has consciously paid attention to current gender stereotypes when each film was made, and done some work to break these stereotypes. The Misogynistic tropes of the first three films, while present, were also challenged by a […]
A Feminist Review of 007- Golden Eye: Misogynist Dinosaurs Run Amok
With Golden Eye, the James Bond franchise had an opportunity to move away from Ian Flemming’s Bond, in that there was no book in the series for this movie to rely on – it was written as a movie itself. […]
Top 5 Tips for New Escorts, From the Professionals
Putting together this list of top tips for new escorts was my pleasure, since escorting has always been my best source of reliable revenue in the adult sex world. I like how easy it is to get into — just […]
Prostitution in the United States – a Brief History
Prostitution has had a long history in the United States. Throughout the 18th, 19th, 20th and 21st centuries, prostitution has enjoyed various levels of legality and safety, though has never been truly accepted, and has always put its professionals on […]
What is Whorearchy?
The exact definition of “whorearchy” will be discussed below, but it’s first important to state that stigmatizing one type of sex work over another, does the entire industry a disservice The “whorearchy” is the belief that different types of sex […]
The Nordic Model Versus Decriminalization – A Brief Discussion
When it comes to consensual adult sex work, an industry that receives consistent scrutinization in society, implementing the Nordic model versus decriminalization only serves to further stigmatize and marginalize consensual adult sex workers, and shouldn’t be seen as a progressive […]
The Problematic History of Bill C-36 in Canada
Sex work laws in Canada have gone through some major shifts since 2008, and most of them not to our benefit – including, but not limited to, the major problems with Bill C-36. Because of problems with Bill C-36, and […]
Unique Challenges of Trans Sex Workers – An Interview With Velvet Steele, a Post-op Transsexual Dominatrix
Siren: Hi Velvet! Thanks so much meeting me today to discuss the unique challenges of trans sex workers. To get us started, will you please share with me a little on your background as a trans sex worker? What services […]
8 Health Care & Wellness Tips for Sex Workers
For most of us, sex work involves close in-person contact with our clients during a session, and the servicing of both their physical and emotional needs. The nature of providing such intimate services places heavy demands on our bodies, minds, […]
7 Reasons Why Sex Work is the Best Work
So you’re wondering why sex work is the best work? I’ve got the answers you’re looking for with my 7 reasons why consensual adult sex work is the best work. Let’s start things off from the beginning. When I was […]
What Happened to the Feminist Porn Awards?
I recently had the chance to chat with Carlyle Jansen, founder of the “Good for Her” sex shop in Toronto, about the Feminist Porn Awards, her multi-year labour of love celebrating the finest in feminist erotic cinema from around the […]